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Linda Polman: Port-au-Prince's broad shoulder

Nickel van Duijvenboden: Moving intervention during...

Aimee Zito Lemo: The flag, the weapon

Carin Kampman: Stories full of (com)passion

Maurijn Rouwet: I defend...

Bert Goubitz: The siver mine in Potosi

Emilie Aude Oursel: An introductory notice

Monica Neomagus: Compassion Prize 2012

Yolanda Rommel: Why Compassion?

Christian van der Kaap: How to document a miracle?

Marjolein en Paul: Trouwaarden

Garry Robson: The Flag of Compassion at DaDaFest 2012

Julienne Straatman: Fragment of the speech

Rob van Tulder: Waving a corporate Flag of Compassion

Marlene van der Reiden: Amsterdam Cares

Elly and Jan Hoogteijling: one Flag of Compassion 2008 - 2014

Maaike Bouman: Education of the Heart

5 students Rietveld Academie: Van Abbemuseum goes Compassion

Ellecom, 11th of June, 2016

Compassion and flag

Society, that is to say our Western society, is based on envy. People fixate on possession and crave to possess more than others.
In the USA this is even worse than here, but the virus of envy is spreading rapidly across the world.
In the USA this (envious inclination) is reinforced by the books of Ayn Rand, the author of Atlas Shrugged. In her (suddenly) tremendously popular books she advocates the view that people must live as an end in themselves and have but one purpose in life: to gain as much power, wealth and standing as they possibly can.
Americans are fully on it, and constantly striving to outdo one another as they go. As the bonus culture and other examples of avarice demonstrate, self-enrichment is also rampantly increasing in the Netherlands and in the rest of the world. Even children say that all they want is to make a lot of money to buy expensive things.

Compassion is the opposite of envy. It means to put oneself in someone else’s shoes, and to be willing to help, support and share with that other person. It means to view the other as your peer, a fellow civilian, fellow inhabitant of your country, city or village, a fellow earthling, a fellow human being. When that other person suffers we suffer too, and we want nothing more than to improve things for him or her.
When there is compassion, refugees and asylum seekers will not be treated as a threat, but as people in need of help. Feeling compassion means to care for them and to be willing to share (some of) our wealth with them.
Autistic people are devoid of compassion. They are unable to empathise with other people and so they cannot suffer the pain of others. Of course, they cannot be blamed nor judged for their incapacity to feel compassion. They miss out on the sensitivity that connects normal people and that allows for them to naturally interact.
Experiencing events only through images, without direct involvement, also hinders empathising with others. The world reduced to spectacle, presented as something unreal, leads to dissociation and results in an autistic perception of it. We should be wary of behaving autistically, while we are not.

The Flag of Compassion reminds us of the need to feel compassionate, to open ourselves up to other people and be willing to sacrifice for the general good. The flag keeps us alert, and calls for us not to forget but to promote compassion. And perhaps, if we do, the flag can become its universally acknowledged symbol.
 

Bertil de Klyn, MD

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Masha Popova: The Flag of Compassion Travels to Russia

Iris Blaak: Yes? No? Compassion!

Bertil de Klyn: Compassion and flag

Vita Evangelista: All of us for Every 1

Marjolein and Fabiola: 180 Amsterdammers

Aldo Kempen: A present for my father

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Varamitra: Saying farewell

Jan van Zanen: The city of Martin

Mark Avery: A symbol to rethink our values

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